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  hbmypikp 3:12 pm on September 25, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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  The Art to Love And be Loved 

  Since the world began the man and woman reach out to each other and try to unravel the secret of true love. There is really it, and if so, where lies the key to it. Some of the most beautiful love stories the world – from brilliant to pathetic tragic success is based precisely on this subject – to love and be loved in return.

  To love and be loved

  No human being can not live without love. Whatever form they will express it or received it at some point everyone needs to feel important to someone. And that’s okay – really rich when you can throw yourself wholeheartedly feelings and return repeatedly, without thinking what and how much you get in return.

  Of course, it’s not about that one-sided partnership relationship in which one altruistically give all my heart and the other takes all selfish and wants even more. To love and be loved is that balance which keeps relationships and act as a key driver for both partners.

  The desire to love

  There is a belief that is almost always in a relationship love is not equal. Which means that one of two partners provides more than the other and deliberately refused to accept the fact that it may seriously damage the relationship between them.

  There are men who need just a little hint that something is wrong and they are thrown to fix the problem and appeasement to their loved ones. There are women who wish to make to them man to feel loved and special, become mothers protectors, covered him with strangulation and obsessive love.

  This type of people are ready to follow your spouse, wherever they take them to her show that are available at any time and any place. And that becomes a failure. First, because the person receiving this love can be felt too secure in your relationship and not to give a real idea of what they have to themselves. And second, because at one point can sense a limitation caused by his own inability to respond to this love.

  The desire to be loved

  There are also people who have a strong desire to be loved. Not that they are not able to give love to your partner, but just have a constant need him to prove their loyalty and to see in his eyes flame that burns only for them.

  According to some experts, the reason for the strong desire to be loved may be rooted in childhood and family environment in which they grew up kind of person. Whether the ingrained sense of inferiority or because of complex internal kompleksiranost, they want to know they are special, unique and irreplaceable. If this proves to them daily, even every minute. Like just about their needs and their desires and if at that very moment when they want attention, their partner can not give it to them, for the simple reason that there are some important obligations they feel neglected and harmed.

  Over time this leads to the opposite effect in their favorite – instead loves them more dedicated, it pulls more strongly. The only solution to avoid this problem, one sometimes to remember to give the will of its own expression of feelings and to show your partner that he can fight him the same kindness and affection they receive.

  “Honeymoon” has the edge

  Sooner or later the “honeymoon” ends. For some it is painful to realize that the original mutual intoxication and euphoric and dynamic development of the relationship during the first few months, whether we talk about marriage or a new acquaintance, passes into a more stable and straight condition. Not that my love is gone, not that one has begun to love less. Just in time both partners begin to feel more comfortable with each other and experiencing a desire to focus their attention not only to the other, but also to the many daily activities that were previously ignored, to be 100% committed to your relationship.

  Most importantly, each one both when they realize that the “honeymoon” is over, is to continue to appreciate the fact that by its very special person who can satisfy his desire for closeness and it makes you feel part of a whole. Can shake off the thought that something was wrong and to accept that love has evolved in this for the better. Because if after the first months of intoxication this link continues to strengthen both feel ever closer, they really find their mate in the person of another.

  What is love?

  Chemistry is not love. That is incredibly noticeable attraction between two people does not mean that they have exactly that long and shared love, we are talking about. Does not mean that they do have love for one another. Desire is not love. Rather it is an addiction to the feeling you have something you can not, therefore soliciting of it again and again. Yearning is not love. Hand, is often confused with love, is actually a strong psychological projection on the love object. Lust is a biological function associated with the creation of a generation. Violence is certainly not love. This is a more direct expression of our low or no self-esteem at all. Neglect is not love – there’s always time for a little exchange of tender feelings. Indifference is not love. Or someone has feelings for others and showing them, or not at all. What then is love? Whatever fills your heart when you see a loved one, everything that evokes a smile on your lips – even thought about it, everything that you feel in his presence and makes you feel special. Love – a collection is about mutual devotion, care, attention, tenderness and understanding that there is no need to calculations, to be donated. Everything you do with a pure heart’s love.

   

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  hbmypikp 7:36 pm on September 24, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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  Marriage Counseling 

  A family is that the building block of a society, and happy families create a healthier society. Marriage counseling helps the married couple build a stable bondage. It assists in the reconciliation of the differences.
  Wedding counseling could be a type of psychotherapy given to married couples to resolve marital problems. Most problems can be solved with a short counseling session. Generally a protracted therapy is needed in which the husband and wife meet the counselor individually and collectively many times. These sessions additionally help you improve your relationship with spouse by straightening behavioral issues and correcting emotional and mental disorders.
  Marital conflicts are a universal phenomenon. Wise individuals request the assistance of wedding counselors when misunderstanding, frustration or another miseries strike their family.

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  Let’s start this article off and simply say this. In my opinion, couples should go for counseling before they get married. This will help them to identify trouble spots, which will crop up later on in their life. They can rectify this problem after wards. Going for counseling is not yet popular among the people since they take it as a weak point. Couple who have strong marriage relation will also get the benefit if they take the service of professional counselors. Origin of Marriage Counseling

  What Do I Do and Why as a Psychologist, Life Coach and Marriage Counseling Professional? In order to be creative, good and effective teacher and preacher (which means: help to bring a change), I am also required to be a good student. Not all wheels could and should re-invent themselves. Marriage Counseling Books

  Wedding counseling may be a technique for providing psychotherapy for a married couple. It tries to resolve problems in the relationship. Sometimes, both the partners attend counseling sessions along to thrash out specific problems and attempt to put together the relationship. For couples not willing to go and meet with a counselor, books give the simplest alternative. There’s enough reading material offered for couples to resort to in times of crisis. Is Marriage Counseling the Answer?

  An objective viewpoint for couples who are encountering marriage problems, and are considering attending marriage counseling. The article looks at what counseling sessions entail, what the couple can hope to get out of them and how much they usually cost.The main downside behind most issues is a lack of communication. Different problems such as ego clashes, illness, infidelity, insatiable sex, and anger conjointly cause much damage to marriages. A timely counseling will solve the issues through love, commitment, and affection. The first step in wedding counseling is to identify the issues prevailing in the relationship. The counselor then finds ways in which and means that to revive the broken relationship by resolving the conflicts and healing the wounds.
  Wedding counseling is usually done by trained psychotherapists specialized in family systems. They help their purchasers overcome family issues through interactive sessions. The wedding counselor presents your problems in a new perspective and offers positive options. He can also employ new strategies to overcome the miseries of a bad marriage.
  All marriages can’t be saved, however, after all, some can. Most marriages on the verge of ending can be saved with the help of a sensible counselor. When selecting a wedding counselor, check his training, instructional background, and experience. Additionally be bound that he’s licensed. Alternative things to consider are the fees, insurance coverage, and also the duration of therapy.

   
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  hbmypikp 3:29 am on September 24, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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  Life, Love & Relationships. 

  If only…

  by D. LeClairSunday July 24th, 2011If only…If only it was as easy to believe the positive others say, as it it the negative.If only…If only people got married because they loved each other.  Love is the foundation of marriage.  You shouldn’t get married just because you’re pregnant.  Having a baby doesn’t create love, you must have that first.  You should get married to someone because you love them and you want to spend your life with them.  You should get married because you cannot live without them.  You shouldn’t get married for money, because the person raises your social status or because your Brother, Sister, Friends or Family are married (some twice), so you feel like you have to.If only…If only people had children because they wanted to have a family to love.  You shouldn’t have children just because your married.  You should have children because you want to have a family to love and care for and because you want to see yourself outside of yourself.  You should have children because you want to continue your family, and leave a piece of yourself behind when you die.  You shouldn’t have children just because your married, or you want to ”hold” somebody down to you.  To keep them from leaving you or being with somebody else. Don’t have children because they make the amount of your ”monthly cheque” go up, or your Brother, Sister, Friends or Family have a child (some more than one), so you feel like you have to.If only…If only people made the choice to quit a bad habit.  You shouldn’t make the choice to quit a bad habit when you are forced to.  You should make the choice to quit a bad habit (whatever your habit may be, we all have them), when you are in possession of, or in the environment of, your bad habit.  This should be your conscious choice to quit even when it is available for you. This will make you stronger in the end when having to be around it in the future. Just because you’re choosing to stop something, doesn’t mean everyone around you is going to choose that as well.  You shouldn’t make the choice to quit a bad habit when you are forced to be without it, because you don’t have money, someone else is stopping you from doing it or due to any other divine circumstance that you are in no control of.  (Example; not having money for a bad habit like smoking.)  Most at this point would say, ”Hey I am going to use this time quit”.  You are only quitting because you are being forced into it by lack of funds, not because you want to.  So when you have funds again you will smoke again. You have to want to.If only…If only people followed their dreams.  You shouldn’t follow someone else’s dreams for you.  Follow your dreams. You do you.  Do what you’ve always wanted to.  As they say, If you find something you really love to do you will never really ”work” a day in your life.  Make your choice and know that even the smallest choices matter.  Not making a choice is in itself, a choice!  You shouldn’t follow someone else’s dreams for you.  Some people didn’t follow their dreams in their own lives, so they are now using you as their second chance.  Don’t make the same mistake as them, use your first chance, and use it wisely.  Don’t live the the life you wanted through someone else, in the end it isn’t you and you didn’t accomplish those things, they did.If only…If only people could be with someone for who they are, not what they look like.  You shouldn’t be with someone because you think you can change them, or only because they look good on your arm.  You should be with someone for how they make you a better person when you’re with them and even when you’re not.  For what you love about them, and even for their faults, because nobody is perfect.  We are all perfectly imperfect.  Nobody is a 100%.  If you think of a person as a whole (100%) and they have everything you have ever wanted, but lets say 20% of what you don’t want , then you still have an 80%.  That’s pretty good, I think, (most of us our 80′s ourselves) but some people look at the 20% that the person they are with is missing, instead of looking at the 80% they currently have, and they end up cheating on them with someone who has that other 20% they think they are missing.  The thing wrong with this is, sure you now have (for the moment, anyways) that 20% you thought were missing, but now you have chosen to cheat on your 80 with your 20 and you are left with 20% of what you want!   You gave up the 80% you wanted, because of the 20% they were lacking, and ended up with 20% of what you wanted, now you’re 80% lacking.  People should stop thinking about what they don’t have and start being thankful for what they do have, even if it is 80%.  Never take the one you love for granted.  You shouldn’t be with someone because you think you can change them into what you want them to be, because they can get you further in life, or because they give you money, cars, clothes, drugs or other material items (whatever those may be).  If you want to go around and spend your life dating 20% percent of what you want, and being a 20% of what a person wants, that is up to you. Please leave us 80′s alone.  Us 80′s , are looking for a relationship, marriage,  family, kids and monogamy, the stuff we are looking to give!  If all you’re looking to give is sex, partying and dating multiple people, why bother thinking you are good enough to have an 80 in your life…. 20′s don’t deserve 80′s and 80′s don’t deserve 20′s.If only…If only people talked to friends on the street.  You shouldn’t ignore them on the street, and act like you don’t know them, depending on who you may be with at the time.  you should also talk to friends on the street (if you see them), if  they are on your Face-book or other social network.  Don’t pretend to be friends with someone on-line, then when you see them on the street pretend not to know them.  Grow up!  If you can’t say hi on the street, delete them off your Face-book.  You shouldn’t ignore them on the street and act like you don’t know them, but then rape their wall and statuses with comments, likes and responses.  Why bother? Most people see that you talk to them on-line anyway, so who cares if someone sees you talking to them on the street?!?! If you are ashamed for some reason to talk to them in public why have them on your friend list at all.If only…If only people took responsibility for their own actions.  You shouldn’t deny your actions, or lie to cover your actions.  You should take responsibility for your own actions.  If you did it, own up to it, and if you didn’t, make it known.  Part of growing up is owning up. Most people have their own opinions of you, true or not and that, frankly, is none of your business.  The only opinion that matters is your own.  You know what you have done and not done in your life, you have been there for all of it, be true to yourself no matter what and if you don’t like something about yourself, well, change it, knowing that you’re worth the work.  If you lie or cover up your actions, it will hurt you in the end and probably someone who doesn’t deserve it.  ”You only lie when you’re afraid of something or someone,” said John Gotti.  Grow up and and learn from your mistakes, that’s why they happened.If only…If only people did everything they say they’re going to do.  Be true to your word.  You shouldn’t commit to things you know yourself, you can’t do.  Don’t procrastinate.  Don’t put off those important things you want to get done.  You may not be around as long as you think.  You shouldn’t take on too much.  You’ll become overwhelmed.  Learn to say no. Don’t make promises you can’t keep, your word should never be broken. Learning to say no to things will help you keep your word most often.If only…If only people said what they meant and meant what they say.  You shouldn’t speak without thinking, it really is like shooting without aiming.  You should say what you mean and mean what you say.  Words can never be taken back, no matter how much you wish they could be.  Even in anger, it doesn’t make it right.  How you see a person, love a person and respect a person, can all change in one moment, just because of words spoken out of anger.If only…If only people lived everyday, as if they were dying.  You shouldn’t waste away your talents (everybody has one).  You should live everyday, as if you were dying, because in a sense, you are.  It’s not about what you want to do or talk about doing but it’s about what you actually do.  Sometimes it’s hard to find what it is you want to do with your life, and what it is you’re good at, but it is out there and trust that it is looking for you too.